things are always what they are . what looks like an opportunity for some, looks like a problem to another. what attracts one repels another. if the same object or situation creates opposite reactions in the minds of people, then it is obvious that its all in the mind. there is no real beauty, there is no real ugliness. there is no real happiness , there is no real sorrow.
So if all that is what we choose to believe, then why not believe in the best . why not choose to believe that it is a beautiful world where every moment there is a child wondering, a new flower blossoming, a new possibility arising .
it is hard to think this way if one is unhappy or unwell , but then the choice always remains with us as the situation we are in remains the way it is and changes only when it does.
finally, it is all in the mind, and you can wither control the mind or let the mind control you. DECIDE what you will be , and you will become that.
